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writes:I'm confused about this guy's intentions... He initiated conversation with me, chased me for dates, etc. Actually, he's one of the sweetest, most attentive guys i've ever been out with. Actually, he's so sweet that it makes me nervous...I mean, he's so smooth, he seems so good at getting me to melt. He brings flowers, he tells me poetry, he's an amazing kisser... How do i know if he's actually into me, or if he's just playing me? How much effort will a guy go through just to get a woman in bed if they are not interested in a relationship? How do i know whether he's a smooth operator, or if he's actually as great as he seems? note: I looked uo his bio on his website. It says that" His inspirations are, but not limited to, smart women, sexy women, good-looking women, quiet women…any women, really."..am i just any woman to this guy, being borrowed for inspiration? Or is that bio something that i just shouldn't pay too much attention to? am i wasting my time with this guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010): To be honest, guys who are just after sex will lose interest pretty darn fast. Those that stick around are after a lot more.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 May 2010):
Time. It's all about time with men. The longer he continues to see you, the more he is interested. So make him work hard and don't give too much away too quickly.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (9 May 2010):
 I think you're right to proceed with caution on this one. Some guys will really, REALLY try hard to get a women into bed. Some tell women they love them and want to marry them. Some buy them things and basically bribe them into it. If your gut feeling says you're being played, you're probably right. It's good to be cautious before you get emotionally attached and then hurt. That doesn't mean you should write him off right away, just be careful. Usually the smoothest ones are the players. But sometimes it just means they really, really like you.
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