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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically, i want sex. I do. And i can get it but i always go for the guys i should go for. ie. My best frineds ex's best friend...not a good story. In the end...i seem to always be stuck with the decision of 'the respect oof my frinds' and 'my urge and temptation of sexual intimacy'. I know that if i tell my friends who i fall for, there opinion of me will drop massively because i dont want a relationship, i have just gotten out of a 5 year relationship (long distance so no sex)and i just wanna break from them. But after this break up i realized when i was at a party that, i am totally free to get off with these guys here. It was only the opinion of my friends that stopped me. I am known as the 'innocent but wise girl'. I know what do in situations and i seem to keep away from risky situations. And, if i say to them that i only want sex and no relationship they will look at me iffy. I know this because when my friend found out that i slept over a guys house, this guy fancies me btw, the first question she asked me after having a pretty heated discussion of why i went over there, she asked 'did you sleep with david!?'..when i sed no, she just walked away and carried on with what she was doing. Part of me doesnt want to care what my frieds think because they are having sex as well. Its just coz its me...and how i am with guys is obviously different when i am single. So this addition of me liking taboo sex isnt exactly helping anything. I dont like people knowing ym business...unless i feel they have too, i am a pretty rpivate person, so its not the fact im scared i will have to tell them, but instead, what if they find out??...coz all my guys friends no my friends...help me please!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (4 April 2010):
 What's wrong with having a relationship?
Why do you want to "get off" with strange men?
How old are you?
How old were you when you first started having sex?
Why do you only fancy guys who are involved with your friends?
Where are your parents, don't they mind you partying and staying at men's houses?
What is taboo sex, what dose this mean?
Do you always think about sex and nothing else?
How many guys have you slept with?
Your post is very confusing, so many things are left out, and it's not very well written, it's very hard to understand what you mean.
Please update your post and give us more details.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (4 April 2010):
 righteo
aged 13 to 15 and just got out of a five year relationship
that means it started when you were 10, or even worse, 8.
Where were your parents when this was happening?
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