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writes:I love to watch my wife having sex,but i don't get the same rush if it's another woman..Why is that????? Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 I answered a similar question on this forum before...here is that answer...
Yes. You will find the answer to this in the book Sperm Wars. The idea is that sexual jealousy, when re-channeled can make the male orgasm more pleasurable.
Basically, the premise is...
...when a man feels that his female mate might be, or is having sex with another male, his body responds by increasing his sex drive. This is to do two things. The first is to replenish his sperm more often, and because he is aware that competing sperm might be inside her, his body produces an even more intense orgasm in him to expel more sperm from him, in order to compete with the other man's sperm inside her.
This is something that happens quite often for men in the swinger lifestyle that come to very much get very turned on watching their wives have sex with other men.
It is the same energy that sexual jealousy is derived from. Just re-channel into a more pleasure way, instead of getting violent.
Hope this helps.
-Frank
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