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writes: Hello everyone, so I am 21yrs old and I have been seeing a married man for almost two years now (He is 25) When I first met him he wasn't married yet but they had a son and lived 2gether. They got married about 10mo ago. For the first year of me seeing him we never had sex or did anything past kissing really. We never did anything sexual. Yet he would always mention how he want to. He even said he thought about it all the time. I always said I wanted to have sex with him. Which I did. I'm very attracted to him but he would always say when it did happen he wanted oral sex, anal sex. He even mentioned wanting to record it. He has brought up wanting to do it doggy stlye. He's told me in detail how its gonna be. Just thinking of being with me turns him on. Of course the whole oral, anal and video taping isn't my thing. Yet he still until this day insists on it. We did have sex one time but it was very lame! We didn't even get to finish. And that was about 5mo ago when we had sex for the first time. So my question is what keeps him intrested in seeing me? I don't cater to his needs. I refuse to do the things he wants the most which is oral and anal. We never get to see eachother. Yet he always texts me and calls me. I have seen him 3 times this whole time! We've stopped talking for about 3mo and he still gets back in touch with me. I have told him on several occasions to leave me alone yet he doesn't. Sometimes he acts like he's my bf. For example he calls me about 15 times in a row when I keep ignoring his calls or he'll text me why don't I answer. I always thought it was sex but I don't give him sex! He always tells me to send him naked pictures , which I don't do either! Do you guys think he actually has real feelings for me? On his wedding day he texted me at 3a! But I never texted back. And he was to leave for a week on his honeymoon. And as soon as he got back he texted me! I don't know what his feelings are for me. He tells me I'm the one that loves him because he talks a lot of shit to me yet I continue to respond to his messages. But I think he is the one that loves me! Am I crazy for thinking he's in love with me or does it seem that way????
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (6 April 2010):
 He seems obsessed with you and wants to use you to do things his wife won't do (anal, taping). He's definitely an a$$; stop answering his calls/texts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): It possitively does NOT seem like this man cares for you at all. Sorry to say so hun, but he does not even care about you. Never mind what he tells you, he will tell you whatever to get into your pants. The reason he keeps talking to you is probably because he thinks he might win you over to be his mistress. And why does he not get bored? Im guessing he has more ladies on the side that he is getting the action from, and you are simply the one he hasn't gotten to quite yet. Maybe you turn him on and thats why he keeps you around. Bu basically, why do you even bother with this married man when he is nasty, wants nothing but sex (even though you dont give it to him you said he was insisting), he calls 15 times in a row, he wants sexual things from you you dont like, and the list goes on and on. Not to mention he is MARRIED! He sounds like an a-hole to me. Move on to something better.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 April 2010):
He's having some sort of affair, whatever this is. And you need to end all contact right now. Perhaps he's just after sex and won't give up because you won't stop speaking to him. He is married with a child and it is now time to let go. So do that. Cut contact and never reply to a message or call again.
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