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writes:How do I get over a crush?!?!I need help getting over a crush i have over another colleague at work, it started almost a year ago and we do flirt alot when we see each other but back then, when it started I wasnt single and nor was he (he still isnt). Up until recently I was doing well excepting the fact that i think he might be a ladies man (by that I mean likes flirting and charming ladies not necessarily going any further than that) Recently we were all on a night out together and everyone was drinking and there was a lot of flirting between me and him and now the crush has flared up again. I am now single have been for five months or so but this guy isnt and doesnt seem to be changing that! I dont want to press anything cos as far as I know he's prefectly happy with his girlfriend, but I really really want things to develop but i think sense would be to get over my stupid crush! Any tips and if its going out meeting other people i have done that and it doesnt work! Any other tips would be much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): One of the best ways to get over a crush - is to tell the crush how you feel and get an answer about how they feel about you.Being told "No" clearly really helpsEven though it sounds scary in the short term - in the long term it's better as you don't get stuck always wondering.
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reader, advice angel +, writes (4 April 2010):
 hi,i think the best thing to do is talk to your crush,nothing will get sorted otherwise,the next time your out and he flirts,tell him he has a girlfriend so why is he flirting with another women ?
all you need to ask,and if he thinks flirting is fun,
to be honest its not very funny in a womens shoes,especially if you have strong feelings for them x
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