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writes:Hey everyone...This is going to be a bit long, but I truly have nowhere else to rant about this so please, please take some time to read it and try to give me advice if possible. I'll be thanking you forever.My situation is a bit weird/funny actually. Just a few days ago I went to get my hair done at a hair salon I had never been to before. I never really develop such strong crushes the first time I meet someone, but, this time, it all happened way too fast. I instantly became attracted to one of the hair stylists, who happens to be a guy. No, if that's what you're thinking, he's not gay, or at least I'm 99,9% sure he isn't. I have a lot of gay friends and I can tell when people are gay most of the time. Besides, not all male hair stylists are gay like some people think.Anyway. So I won't call it love at first sight or anything because that'll sound too cliche, but I definitely felt way too attracted to him and my heart skipped a few beats when I realized he would be the one doing my hair.Long story short, we started talking, he was very friendly to me, which is normal I suppose, and as the conversation went on we shook hands and got to know each others names and everything.I happen to be a first year college student and I'm studying far from home so I'm new here, I told him all that. He immediately started talking to me about the place, and asked me where I tend to hang out or where I usually go for a night out with my friends. He also told me about him, the places he goes to, and I remember that he told me precisly that he goes to a karaoke bar I've also been to almost every Sunday night. If I heard right, he at some point told me "Ok, so you don't need to go to the gym. So, are you into any other activities or clubs around here?" I don't know why, but I blushed at this. I don't know if it was a compliment, but he did smile at me after the "you don't need to go to a gym" part.We talked about a lot of things for quite a lot of time. We didn't stop talking even for a bit. I told him random things about myself because for some reason I felt too comfortable talking to him and he told me as random things about himself. We even found out we live closeby, and that he's been to my hometown a lot of times. We even ended up having things in common. I managed to make a few jokes along the way and made him laugh, which was also good. I know it must be too early to tell, but I really grew to like this guy. Ever since I left the salon, all I've been thinking about is him and our conversation. It really seemed like we somehow connected while we were talking, even if he was just doing his job right then. I'm thinking of going to that karoake bar on Sunday just so I can see if I spot him there. However, if I do, what do you suggest I do? And honestly, do you think he could possibly be interested in me, and was not just telling me all this because of his job? Do I really stand any chance to get his attention? I really want to make friends with him and possibly ask for his number, but I have no idea just how I'm going to do this. Any ideas?Please help, I would very much appreaciate it!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 April 2010):
 Not all customers are accorded the same attentions. Some get more and others get less. It depends on who is the customer.
The way you described him , he is pretty interested in you or he would not be talking non stop.
Get a friend to accompany you to the Karaoke bar and have fun.
All the best to you !
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (4 April 2010):
 Go to the bar. Can't hurt. If you see him there, tell him you remembered the bar from the conversation and wanted to see if it was fun. See if a friendly chat goes anywhere. It just might!
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