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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi my problem is a bit weird and completely stupid but it is a genuine problem that i cant get over so any help would be great thankyoui have fallen completely in love with someone who i dont even like very much. Im bi (not openly, still coming to terms with it myself but been with 2 girls before) and this person is a girl who i go to college with. She isnt very nice to me. I dont know what it is about her that attracts me. She is not the most stunningly gorgeous person in the world or anything like that but to me she is beautiful. i am literally mesmerized by her. She is quite a grumpy person, very abrasive and likes to keep herself to herself. SHe hasnt always been horrible to me. it sort of goes through phases. one day she is really really nice to me and i swear there is chemistry between us and she is giving me vibes and signals, but the next day she insults me and pushes me away like she is disgusted to be around me.ive confided in one friend about my feelings for this girl and my friend asked me what it is that i like about her and i honestly cant come up with anything.Why do i crave her attention so much and want to be with her. why do i want to kiss her? it doesnt make any sense at all. she clearly doesnt like me, that should be enough to forget about her but i cant. i really want her. can anybody make sense of this please? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): Im sorry to say this but anyone who treats you as she does isnt worth it, no matter how attractive she is or how much you want her or admire her or think you love her she is acting like a nasty bitch! using you for sex and taking out her moods on you. You deserve so much better than her, get rid of her, dont let her use you like this. She isnt kind or caring, she doesnt treat you right - so she may be good in bed? she is giving u mixed signals and is nasty. she isnt worth it. Nastiness and treating ppl like crap isnt what u need in someone.
You said it - you dont like her , why be with her?
take care
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