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*hrisjack
writes:hi i met this man on a dating agency, he works on the oil rigs, we chatted and texted for 3 weeks and got on really well, we arranged to meet up for a meal when he returned from his months leave, we went out on the thursday,and then after i went to his house he made me meals he then told me he had fallen in love with me, he agreed we had only just metbut loved me and wanted to be with me, the weekend before i stayed at his house from the friday until the sunday, we parted on the sunday and agreed to see each other on the monday and the thurs, he texted me several times on the sunday, but then nothing until the eveing about 9 when in my hotmail , was a email which was forwarded to me from him and a email from another woman whilst on the rigs, i could not believe it , the mail was saying how much he wanted her and loved their chats, so i sent her a mail asking what was going on but heard nothing mailed her a few times with what we had, and texted him and called him so many times no reply, theartned to go round and find out the reasons why, got one text saying he did not want to be with me anymore, but was not happy and wanted a answer, but on thurs eveing gota vist from a police officer giving me a harrasment notice, for mailing is girlfriend and texting him all the time and calling, i just cannot understand the reasons.
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reader, chrisjack +, writes (8 April 2010):
chrisjack is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsince my last mail my mumber has been barred to his phone, this mail that wwa forwarded to me fromn him chatting to someone else, was only a recent meeting, he had never spoken to her before, i was with him for his birthday and most of the month he was home on leave, this is why i cannot understand the forwarded email
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Probably she was involved, but it had to be HIM who requested the restraint order. So, let him miss out.
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reader, chrisjack +, writes (5 April 2010):
chrisjack is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for your reply this other woman he only had a live chat will her on sykpe when he came back from the rigs so really did not know her at all, do you think she had a part in forwarding the email
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 His game was up .It was good and lucky you got that e-mail or you would have ended up in his cesspool.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (5 April 2010):
This was just awful. It shows the kind of person you were getting involved with. Though I'm sure you won't agree with me for the time being, it's simply best this way.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 April 2010):
And now you know the truth. Surprise, this man was either already in a relationship with this other woman, or was setting up as many meetings as possible for the sex. I am sorry, but you've been taken for a ride. I wouldn't even be sure of his occupation either. I suspect he's using that as a good way to meet as many women as possible then not having to meet with them for some time, or ever again. Let him go. He's got serious issues.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (4 April 2010):
 Hi, I'm sorry to hear you've been messed about . It's bewildering how people can behave like this. I don't understand why you want to know about his reasons for doing what he's done so much. You did only know him for 3 weeks. He could be anybody. He could be married as well, anyway it's not good for you to get so emotionally involved with a guy so soon.He's definitely addicted to high drama. Maybe he does this all the time to many women. He could be any number of unsavoury things. It sounds like something from an episode of sex and the city.Take time to get to know a guy over a few months, especially those you meet on the net. When a guy is that full on saying it's love and all that very early in a relationship, it usually means there's something wrong upstairs.Your story sounds typical. I hope you have more luck in the future.
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