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writes:I recently started seeing someone that is 19 1/2 years younger than myself. We used to work together, but she quit. We have a lot in common and share similar interests. We both own our own homes and don't have any previous baggage from other relationships. She is being influenced by family and friends to end the relationship especially her best friend that said: "If you date him we can't be friends anymore." I have been content to let things build slowly but I'm against many odds and wonder if it is worth it. It has been 3 years since my last relationship, and a year since hers. Do I pursue her, or do I just go back to being single?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): In reply to lonesome: Her friend is 25 - 27 years of age, she (the one I have feelings for is only 20, I am 39... but I'm both younger and older than that (if that makes sense)). I've talked with her since I posted this question, and I still don't know how things will go.
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reader, lonesum dove  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Hello I really would love to know the exact age different between you, you guys but let me say if she was a good friend to her, she would support the two of you uless there is something going on were we as reader dont know about... I have three bestie friends and if they are happy I support them in any way possible as long as they are safe and happy good luck
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Give her the option to choose you but try not to put too much pressure on her. I have to say that her friend must be bluffing otherwise that is just a pathetic friend. People will respect her decision and it is hers to make. Your patience will be greatly appreiciated even if it does not work out and I commend you for it. There is no reason why you two could not be happy together. I hope things work out so you both are happy in the end.
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