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writes:My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago. I was overbearing, not truthful,and not a very good girlfriend.I miss him, and regret all of this..I just want another chance.. Now, I am giving him his space, but it's hard. He says its hard too, and asked me if id like to talk? I said "No, its ok. You want this, and I need to get over it,right?" He said, I dont know, I'm just burnt out on giving you opportunities to break my heart..but I love you so much..I need to think, I dont have an answer right now." Is he just saying this,or does he really need time to think? I wish he would just tell me if he wants it to be over for good or not..
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 You can cut him off from your end if the drama is too much for you .
Let him chase you again if he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone. I'm still confused though, I feel like I am being dangled by a string, and I'm just waiting to get cut loose..I'd rather him tell me now that he is over and done with..
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (4 April 2010):
 Leave the poor man alone and let him think. While he's doing that, take time to figure out how things will be different if he gives you another chance. It's all well and good to say you're going to change, but following through is another matter entirely.
Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (4 April 2010):
In the affairs of the heart, sometimes ,they don't think carefully before it comes out of their mouth.
They may have regrets or remorse after wanting to breakup with you.
Their emotions become destabilized and their thoughts become flip flops.
They need more time to really think hard which course to take.
A period of time when they are away from you will calm their minds and they can think better and rationally.
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