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writes:i am married for two years now,when ever i got out with my husband and when i see him lookinf at girls i start thinking if he is looking at them normally or does he think about women lustfully.. how do i find out whether he has lust for other women..? please help me this question is spoiling my happy married life. Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (4 April 2010):
 Try not to let it bother you. He is just looking because it is natural to do so. I'm sure you check some guys out even though you would never leave him or cheat. Those are probably his thoughts exactly. The world around us is for comparison and by him looking at other women and being with you then that says to me that you have what no one else has that he wants. Try to see the flattery involved and if you want to shock him next time you catch him looking say something like yeah she's cute isn't she.
I'm sure he loves you and you shouldn't let this get to you. Hope this helps you out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): All men look at women. Just as women look at men. You might look at a man and like his body type, ie tall and muscular. You might like his smile ect. Men look at women because they might like her legs, bust ect. They probaly want to have sex with the women as much as you want to have sex with men you look at. I really dont think you have anything to worry about. Staring on the other hand is a different matter and can be annoying and embarrassing for a partner. Staring does indicate that there is more than a passing interest. If he has this problem it does need addressing as it could mean he is sexually interested in other women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): We all look, it's human nature and as long as it stops at that, then there isn't a problem.
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