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female
age
36-40,
*acchiri
writes:I'm in a long distance relationship with a boy who lives about 3 hours away by train. I'm feeling really frustrated recently because I feel like he's taking me for granted. Also his words and behaviour never seem to match. I'm leaving this country in 4 months to go back to my own country and he actually asked me to go and live with him in his city. He says he really likes me and he never ever gets bored when I'm around. When I'm with him he treats me really sweetly and genuinely seems to really like me. He's introduced me to his close friends and told them that I'm probably going there to live with him soon. However when I'm back in my own city and we're apart, I feel completely neglected by him. Usually we skype everyday but recently he barely texts me at all and we go for 3 days at a time without skyping. Everytime I text him, he replies about what he's doing but never asks me how I'm doing or even what I'm up to. I could be in a different country for all he knows. I've even tried waiting until he texts me rather than being the one to initiate the text and when he does, it's always something like kisses but he'll never ask a question like how am I doing. This is really starting to bother me because if you really care about someone then you want to know how they're doing right? Does he not care about me at all? I just can't understand why he's behaving like this recently. He's made it clear that he's serious about me and wants me to live with him yet it's like he forgets about me when we're apart recently. I feel like he's taking me for granted. I don't know what to do. Please help me :s
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): I Think you should talk about it with him cause he may not know that it hurts you when he doesn't ask about your doings.
I was once in that situation before and when we talked about it with my boyfriend, he told me he never knew that it hurt me,so he changed after the talk.if you do this it might help.
And lastly some guys in relationship don't like to be asked about their doings cause they think that their lovers don't trust them. So that's why some guys don't ask their lovers about their doings to avoid what might come out.
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