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*ieran1113
writes:Hi, im in a relation ship with an incredibly gorgeous girl, the only thing is, im in love with someone else.The girl i love doesn't know about this yet, and neither does my girlfriend, also, my girlfriend lives like two/three bus rides away, which i can occasionally do at least 5 times a week, or the girl i love only lives a 10min walk from my home.Ive loved her now for like 5 years now (obviously at first it was just a crush, but now its something more).I know im a bit of an ass in asking this, but what on earth shall i do?Tell my girlfriend and break her heart, or carry on as if nothings happened?
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reader, advice angel +, writes (3 April 2010):
 the best thing to do is tell your GIRLFRIEND about this "lover."if you love this girl and not your girlfriend,how can you call her your girlfriend?a girlfriend is someone you love and if you dont love her but some one else,you need to tell them both!!! urgently coz the longer you love that person and fake your feelings to your girlfriend,it will get harder!! x
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Dear Kieran: Listen to CaringGuy. He's right. Go after what you want - where your heart leads you as long as you are not doing it because it's convnient (10 min away). Know what I'm saying?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 April 2010):
At least let your girlfriend go, so she can find someone else. Don't tell her the truth. Just say it's not working out and you should both move on. Then decide whether you really love this other girl, or whether it's just a major crush that you will get over.
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