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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:i have no idea what is going on but my cousin have stopped talking to me for no reason...she lives upstairs..we all live in the same buildingshes at uni now but she comes down on weekends and holidays and she she has stopped talking to me..i dont know what i have done.even on face book she completely ignores me. but when she sees me with a new hair or a dress or heels she would go and buy the same thing.today our mutural friend came to see her and she called me (our Friend) outside my window and i looked out to see her and my cousin didnt even give me a glance. she was making a face.what is up with her?? we use to be soo close and talked about everything. now shes at uni maybe she thinks shes better than me. am starting uni in september.. but her bf is really dfriendly and he talks to me.what do you think??
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): only way around it is asking her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): It could be either she has her nose out of joint about how friendly her b/f is toward you, the fact that she's in university and she's changed because of it..or a third very possible reason, if she's going to university, is maybe she feels she needs distance for now, to study or try as hard as she can in university. She might be in one of those growing stages of life, where she's prioritizing her life to help her grow or move foreward. University is a time where many people go through that change, which seems very important to them, and unfortunately confuses and shuns alot of people in the process. Lastly, you say you have a mutual g/f...it might be that she is talking behind your back or lying about you, to your cousin, but it wouldn't be good to assume that without any hard evidence, so just be careful of what you say or show toward mutual friends of anyone who might be on the outs with you for whatever reason.
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