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writes:With my girlfriend, we talk, hold hands, hug (sometimes hug on the bed), kiss (also hug and kiss on my bed) but we've never done anything like hmm how to say.. like sexually. I know this sounds like I want to have sex with her but that's not the case, i'm talking about things like touching her ass while kissing and being able to touch each other without being embarrassed about itWe've been together for 3 months.I'm scared she'd think all i want is to have sex with her, i don't want sex before marriage btw. I try everything i can to make her happy, always. Should I just hold myself in?I'm a 17, so sexual tension is high and they say that's normal xP.
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reader, advice angel  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 i like this because you seem to be concerned about what your girlfriend thinks when you touch her,wich means you respect her,what you should do is talk to her and jst ask if she minds,thats all you got to do,and just because you want to touch her doesnt mean you want sex!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@premarital thing: I have my reasons, first of all, she's an exchange student.. Not going to tell all reasons though x].
@Not wanting sex: i'm not saying I don't want sex, but I won't have sex before I'm married and If i wanted to I wouldn't even have a place to do it.
@Strongfp thanks that seems cool :).
I also thought it would seem creepy if i'd ask her xD
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): Im a 17 year old girl.
I was 14 when I had a 18 year old boyfriend(just saying)
i just wanna say when you touch a girls legs or thighs they think its sweet:)
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reader, Holly Louise +, writes (3 April 2010):
well she is probably waitign for you to make the move. Girls dont like to seem eager for intimate stuff because they think it makes them look desperate. And if she cares what you think thans he must be a pretty cool person. Just try slipping your hand round her lower back and see her reaction. If she knows that u dont beliv in no sex before marriage she must no that from that that you are mature sexually and emotionally and should trust you. Personally, i dont think 3 months is too early to do some boddy grabbing...but at the end of the day the only way you can truly find out how she feels is trying it...hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): Yes sexual tension is high at 17 - that's normal!
You say you "don't want to have sex before marriage btw.' Why? If you really feel this way then stop kissing your GF while laying on your bed b/c that is where you are headed! This is the natural progression of things. That is why you want to touch her behind when you kiss. This is normal. How old is your GF? Why is premarital sex verboten?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): well i think you should tell her how your feeling...so then if shes not comfortable or anything she won't get embarrassed and she will know what exactley you want do do... just speaking from a girls point of veiw
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