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writes: my husband loves me as a wife but he says i'm not his love.there is mental diffrences between us so we can't discus any topic.he talks with his college and friend and says friend is friend.me should not interfair...he says tthis is not trust..he is honest physicaly and financialy but he has fallen in love.he wants my help but he says he iis not his friend but i am sure.he also says me should look at him.what should me do?love him too much.can't see him sad and powerles but can't bear this?help me.?what topics should we discus? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): If he says he loves you as his wife, but you are not his love, then he is lying. They are the same thing. Love is not just feelings it is a choice. He has chosen to stop loving you. Also, he is accusing you of not trusting him, but this is not reality. He is not trusting you. As his wife every part of his life is also your life and you have a right to know about it and be involved in it. He is manipulating you and you should not take the blame for his unfaithfulness.
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