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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I caught my boyfriend of almost a year and a half talking to his ex about supposed "nuddy" pics he still had on his computer and how nice her body was. I was pretty upset at the situation, but how upset should I be??
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): domo kun is right, be as upset as you want to be.
You have a right to your feelings, and if he has hurt them somehow, he should WANT to fix it.
Just be honest, try to talk to him about it, and do try to stay calm. You have every right to be angry, but don't lose your cool.
Also, remember that when you ask him a question, you should wait 10 seconds for a response. Women tend to hold conversations at the speed of light and sometimes leave men in the dust :P
Don't make excuses for him, let him explain himself if he can.
If he can't, or doesn't want to, you might want to reevaluate the relationship if you haven't already.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 April 2010):
I think you should be very upset. He has nude pictures of his ex on his computer, which really is a no-no. Then he actually spoke to her about them. Porn is one thing. To have pictures of an ex naked is another. To have a girlfriend, and be caught by her looking at the naked photos whilst actually talking to the ex about the photos is serious. To be honest, you might be better off dumping him now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): Id be upset if that happened to me too. He shouldnt have her pictures on his pc now. Ask him to remove them. If hes with you, he shouldnt be talking in such a way with an ex partner and he certainly shouldnt be ogling her naked body on his pc. Hes behaving badly.
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