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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:*OP's own title* y am i meeting guys that only wanna drag my good name through the mud. ok so my very first bf lied about sleeping wit me like he was braggimg about it and that ended everything we had. we did not sleep together. then while on the rebound i fell for a player who i guess sleeps with girls then leaves them. when nothin happened between me and him he called me boring. that also hurt mt self esteem caus im still trying tl get over him. i told him i no longer like him and we are just Attempting to be friends. then theres the guys i meet talk to for awhile then they wanna be friends with benefits so i immediately end all contact right there. like why are the guys im coming across want to drag my name thru the mud and ruin my repuation. like what have i done to deserve this?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 April 2010):
The first one was immature, the second was a player, and the third was a player. Take a look at the type you fancy, because maybe you're a little bit too interested in the bad boy type. Spend more time getting to know men as well, so you understand us more. And make the ones you like work for your attention as well.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (3 April 2010):
Well your first boyfriend was probably from when you were younger and guys mature slower, so he was immature and stupid. The next guy...he was a player, what did you expect? There are guys out there that want a girlfriend and not just FWB, you just haven't met the right guy yet. So put your chin up and quit the the self pity, you definitely won't find a guy that way.
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