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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend of a year has been talking to this girl at work he says nothing is going on but i do not know! today someone texted him early in the morning he said that it was her but it was a forward text so i believed him. then she texted again and i asked him what she wanted he said a ride and i asked him if he was going to give it to her he said no. so i asked him to see his phone he said no and started hiding it, after taking a shower he finally showed me.the thing is he lied and he was giving her a ride (i gave him money for gas he is giving females rides and when he has no gas he is asking me, hell no) and he told her that he wanted MacDonald's i asked him if she is buying food for him too, first he said no that he is going and get it himself then he told me she is getting it for him on break. i did not believe that so i called her she said that yes he is talking her to work and yes he asked her to buy food for him on the way to work(no one is going to embarrass or take me for a fool).after i called her he just walked out, and went to pick her up, i told him that a relationship should have no secrets, i told him to pack his things and leave, do u think i am wrong?
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reader, Godchild +, writes (3 April 2010):
I think that you did the right thing. If you make it easy for him to lie to you he will do it all the time. Only because he know he can get away for it. Why would he lie about this girl? If it was innocent he shouldn't of lied about it. Stay strong!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 April 2010):
You have done the right thing. You do not need to have a guy like this in your life. He's not worth another moment of your time or thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): yes because he is lying about petty things
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (3 April 2010):
I applaud you of course you did the correct thing. I am impressed with you - stand no nonsense from any man who acts lkie a twot.
A special lady like you will not be free for long?
Happy Easter, do not eat too much chocolate, change your cloths a little and your hairstyle, re invent yourself this weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): No, i do not think that you are wrong. I think you did the right thing. You should be able to trust him and he should be able to tell you the truth especially after being together for a year. If he can prove to you that he is trustworthy and loving then maybe, maybe you can reconsider.
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