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We both like the same guy!

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Question - (3 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2010)
A female Iran - Islamic Republic of age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well i've moved schools and and i've meet new friends.

I sit beside this guy in chemistry clas and i think im falling for him, but i think he likes me too. I mean we flirt we've got so many things in common and we're beging to speak alot more after class...Well the thing is my new friend(who im really close to now) fancies the pants off him and i think that he fancies her and only conciders me as a friend he's always talking about her and asking me how she is.But i really i mean really really like him but she likes him too and shes known him for longer...What should i do?????

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A female reader, xlittle_nickyx United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2010):

Talk to your friend acknowledge that you both like him and then make a pact that neither of you will go near him, coz believe me he will only ruin your friendship, lets just say he will go out with you, but all the while your friend will be putting the moves on him, he will love the fact that he can have 2 girls at the same time and vice versa if he was to go out your friend he will fall for you, he is a no go zone, it may be hard but try and forget about him he will probably turn out to be a d***, i mean he flirts with you but also flirts with her, dont go there!!!

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A female reader, Tasmanian devil United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2010):

Tasmanian devil agony auntMaybe you should wait for him to make a move, you don't want to jepordise your friendship and this way you can see where you stand with him. And if he chooses your friend its not the end of the world, you'll bounce back.

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A female reader, advice angel United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2010):

advice angel agony aunttheres a rule to friendship that if you and your friend like the same person you let her have im but in this case you's are both friends so the case applies to both of you

i think you should sit down with your friend and decide then maybe you both confront this boy

if hes flirting with you but asks about your friend?

case of messing girls around?

trust me ive been there,confront him before it gets out of control x

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