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female
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30-35,
*scheer2012
writes:ok i have a boy problem. There's this boy, Jason, he's a junior. I like him and he kind of likes me i guess cuz we flirt allll the time at play practice and in school and stuff. I'm a sophomore. well a girl in my class alli, used to have a thing for him too, and still kind of does. like he's been known as a player but idc because i like the attention and he seems so much more mature than the others guys in my school and that i've dated. well he makes me feel very unsure about everything because the he like never texts me... deffinitely not on the weekends. and people keep asking him if he's going to take me to prom since we've been talking and wat not, but i guess he told a friend he wasn't sure if he even wanted to go with me. so i feel kinda torn. i know i should probably give up on him, but i don't want to because i like him a lot, and he's cute and nice and sweet and smart and funny and i LOVE the attnetion...what should i do...and all my friends tell me i need to talk to him about it but i don't want to because i don't want him to think i'm like clingy or somehting because we're NOT dating. idk i'm just very confused!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Pardon my bluntness,but... you say you love the attention- and it does not sound like you get a lot of attention from this Jason guy. He never texts you, he's not available on weekends, he does not want to take you to the prom and he has never asked you out not even just as friends. He is simply responding to your attempts to get attention- he's flirting. Not such a big effort.
I am not a big fan of guys who need to be convinced and strongarmed into liking you. I am sure that if you look around you'll find someone who's more responsive
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