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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:my friend whenever am going to her house and am running late she'd call me alot and if dont answer she will texts me. are you coming, why you ignoring me what have i done etc: is soo annoying. and am sick of her aways calling pretty girls ugly. she thinks i should agree with her in the same things and i say my opinion she gets angry and tells me to shut up.oh and shes aways talking about sex. when she sees a guy in T.V sees like i'd **** him hard and ****..it gets on my nerves.why she like that?thnx..x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 April 2010):
She has severe low self esteem and major insecurity issues. Gently talk to her about it and see if she will open up at all about what has caused her to feel the way she does.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Your friend has major self esteem issues - she sees pretty girls as a threat and she is probably sexually inexperienced so feels that she has to say those shocking things about men on TV to make herself appear 'mature' (wrongly). She really does think you are ignoring her by being late as she feels she is not worthy of attention. I think you are right not to agree with her all the time - she has to learn other people have other opinion's. It is probably a phase she is going through as she tries to figure out who she is...I wasn't a very nice person at 18 and quite critical of others as I was still a kid trying to be an adult. I think if you are patient then she may grow up in her 20's and become a good friend.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (3 April 2010):
Time to say goodbye to her! Do not let her bring you down?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): She sounds very controlling and insecure. Try to compliment her more and let her know that you are proud to be her friend, but that doesn't mean that the two of you have to agree on everything. If you are running late, call her and let her know you are on the way. For the guy thing, it might be hormones and/or low self-esteem. Tell her that you don't like it when she says things like that or simply change the topic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): Sounds like she has low self esteem, try talking to her about it.
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