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female
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30-35,
*little_nickyx
writes:ok so here it goes... my bf of almost 4 years and i have had a massive fight because earlier in the day i heard him on the phone talking about going out with his friends i heard the guy on the other end of the phone say yer michelle is coming my bf said who and he said you know that girl from ( i didnt hear the rest) ne way later on he said he was goin out i asked with who he sed it was boys nite so i said what i had heard earlier he denied it (im not deaf) then he admitted that yer sumtimes these girls tag along, so how the f*** can these girls tag along along when he reckons none of his friends gfs go wid them, then he has the cheek to say oh you can come after the arguement, i need you advice coz hes always going out with his boys (no gfs allowed bulls***)and im not allowed to go out alone with my girls (yer coz i might meet sum1 u been f******) am i right or just paranoid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): You should act based on what you know:
1. He excludes you from a circle of his friends
2. He provides you with incomplete or misleading information
3. He attempts to control your behavior
4. He felt defensive enough to support a conflict
Of course, the existence of the fight was partially your responsibility, and it probably worsened your relationship.
I recommend honestly and calmly requesting to meet his friends, while listening to everything he says and using as few words as possible. Don't let him mess with your head though. You have rights.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (4 April 2010):
 He goes out with his mates, well do the same. Equality is always best in relationships.
Why do you allow him to keep you stuck at home when he's allowed to go out and have fun with his mates. People treat you the way that you allow them to.
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