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writes:(MOD NOTE) 2 posts made into oneTheres this guy i've met 3 years ago we hit it off well but two days later i had to go back to my home town.i messaged him few months ago and he was saying all these stuff how his going to come to my home state and that he cant wait to see me.few weeks after that conversation he had whole bunch of pictures with this one girl that he hung out with he also posted on his own profile that he liked someone..i knew it wasnt metwo weeks ago my friend that lives in the same state as him told me that he definitly likes me and cant wait to see me there fore they are coming together to visit..i also added more high lights trying to go blonde my friend asked him wat he thought and she told me he liked it alotfew days ago he said he liked someone again..i didnt know who he meant by that then i found out he has been hanging out with this one girl..then today i saw that he became a fan of blonde girlsi'm confused what signal is he trying to send..is he interested or not so? please help me so i just move on? is he too much of a player for me?2nd post: i've known this guy since my freshman year in high school he graduated from there and i never talked to him..i imed him on facebook we hit it off i got his number he got mine and ever since february we have texted i thought that he was definitly into me ..problem is his talking to my friend whenever he texts me one second later he texts her with the same stuff.. but he told his cousin that he really liked me and half the neighborhood thought we were together from this day he still texts me and my friend at the same time.why is he doing this? does he think his too cool for school or thinks his the biggest player on earth? i know he doesnt like either of us at least i think he doesnt so what is up with this guy??
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reader, secede +, writes (3 April 2010):
Sometimes when guys have numerous girls liking them that they themselves like, they want all of them, so they won't commit to any of them. There's a good chance that if you did hook up he wouldn't stop looking elsewhere. As great as he might seem to you, he needs to grow up. There are too many decent guys out there to waste your time with this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): Regarding the first post, you're right. He is a player. He likes you but for the wrong reasons. If you ever did hook up with him, he would probably not stop looking elsewhere. He just likes all the attention. Sometimes guys don't know what to do when a number of girls like them. They want all of them, so they won't truly commit to any of them. Because of this, he's only wanting a relationship to fulfill his own needs. Anyway, as nice as he seems to be, its not worth it until he grows up a bit.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (3 April 2010):
I wouldn't call him a player, just keeping his options open. He lives in another state and you'll just be worried about him all the time. Forget him, he's a waste of your time.
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