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writes:Ok so here goes. me and my ex broke up over two years ago. We had a good relationship and I was his longest. We broke up mainly because he was moving away to study. I think it was very upsetting for both of us, we both cared for one another a great deal. I tried to keep in contact with him and be supportive of what he was doing, he told me I needed to move on. I did, didnt have any contact for over three months and then he asks for my friendship on facebook. I didnt accept it. He met up with a mutual friend and apparently said that he didnt understand why I didnt accept his request. I gave him a call few days later saying that the reason was that I didnt want to see him with other girls, we had a good chat that night. He then started asking me to meet him when he came back, and I did. It seemed like we were getting close again, then after a bad day at work I asked him if he wanted to meet up, he said sorry but he was busy. I over-reacted and said Im fed up with you treating me like crap, his reply- I think you want more than friendship and I cant. Please bear in mind that we had actually slept together during meeting up. I said I wasnt sure what I wanted and would let him know. I text him saying that I wanted more, sorry. From then on he has disrespected and told me to move on and then told me he had met someone else and was really happy now. I said to him that he didnt need to rub it in my face, when he knew I had feelings for him. Why hot and cold? I think he has played me for a fool and just used me?. A mistake I know, but I actually texted him saying that he had used me and what he had done was selfish, if he didnt feel anything for me, he should have left me alone. His reply, you are completely and utterly mad, you need help, sort your life out and dont involve me. Of which I replied, how dare you, me life is wicked thanks and there is nothing wrong with me. He replied, you make me laugh and then said horrible things, including its been like four years since we were together. I think he is just messing with my head?It was him who got back in contact with me, for what, to make me miserable. He is a tosser and I never want to see him again, but deep down I know I still care. Reactions to reading this would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): Just move on... he is not worth it. It is clear that he has forgotten you and didn't care about your feelings.
I myself was in a long relationship with a guy whom I truly loved but had to end for a reason so I understand how hard it is to completely ignore and stop contacting the guy. He is a jerk, if he has met somebody else, why did he even sleep with you again? Be strong. You will find another one that will appreciate you and be worth of your time and effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): Just to add that we were going out for two years. I truely loved him and thought that he was the one for me and I know he use to feel the same. Its upsetting to think that it has all ended like this and im sure we will never see one another again or speak again. I havent been in touch with him for over six weeks now.
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