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*eleste93
writes:so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months. and he told me today that he always gets bored with girls and thats why his longest relationship has only lasted 4 months. but he said he loves me so hes going to keep trying. i really do love this guy but i need some advice. how do i make him unbored with me. i mean i suggested us doing more stuff together but he said thats not it and that he has fun but hes just getting bored being with me. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jennilove  +, writes (3 April 2010):
First and foremost: what are you still doing with this guy?? He told you to your face that he is bored with you?? You should have walked away there and then. This isn't love. There are lots of great guys out there who would walk over hot coal to get some time with you. Dont waste it on this person.
Spend time with your friends and start thinking about your future. Your still young and you ought to start how you mean to go on in relationships :)
Four months isnt very long; there is no excuse for his attitude to you. You can watch a tv series longer without getting bored :P He sounds very immature and you deserve a lot better. I wish you all the best!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Give him more space and stay away from him. Go and enjoy yourself with your friends .
When he feels your absence, he will come back to you . If he is still interested , he will come back . Otherwise, you need to move on.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 April 2010):
End it. Take the initiative and end it. He's a young men, and as of yet doesn't really have the capacity to hold a long term relationship together. You don't need to be with a guy who finds you boring and won't try to fix it. That shows that the problem is about him, not you. He's not really making any effort. End it and move on.
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