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writes: Hello, I hope you can help.I really want to go on holiday but my bf won't come with me as he is too scared to fly. I understand that but the thing is he has flown before twice with his ex and twice with his mates. He keeps saying that he does want to go away but he is not ready tothink about flying but what gives? He has flown with other but won't do so with me. Thanks for your help!
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reader, medha  +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Q.. I kinda thought that if life hands you lemons you throw them at people you didn't like! Finding someone with vodka is a good option too!!!!!
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reader, Manya  +, writes (3 April 2010):
I have to say that quiet-echo has a good point! Flying these days is worse than
ever with new security checks, long waits and there were pilots drinking while flying etc.!! I could see how he could really fear it these days.
DEFINITELY do not pressure him in any way.
Could you go on holiday by train or rent a car and go to the beach or something? There are many ways to go on holiday without stepping on board a plane!
What he needs is to feel that you love him, unconditionally, and then the
relationship will continue to flourish!
If you have your heart set on flying, go ahead, but hurry back to your man!
Love,
Manya
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reader, lovelovejuice  +, writes (3 April 2010):
He's either not sure as to how he feels about being in a relationship with you, or he's not that into you. Stop pressuring him (if you are), and either get out of the relationship or risk the time to let things grow stronger.
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