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writes:Okay, I'm 14 and I have my first proper boyfriend, we make-out alot, and he says he enjoys it :) Recently he asked me what turns me on, because this is the furtherest I've ever got with a guy so I don't really know what turns me on as such, so I don't really know how to reply? Does anyone know any things I could say for him to try? I don't wana go too far with him, but I don't really know how to answer this question. Thanks (: Reply to this Question
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reader, Sibella  +, writes (3 April 2010):
There's no need to lie--just tell him you have yet to discover what turns you on. You're fourteen--that's to be expected. Heck, I'm 22, and I still have trouble articulating specific turn-ons.
Also, and more importantly: make sure he understands your boundaries. If you don't want to have sex, tell him in no uncertain terms as soon as possible. Don't go along with things that make you uncomfortable just to turn HIM on. It'll spare both of you a lot of resentment later on.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Experiment by yourself in privacy and see what you like then you can guide him. Masturbation is the best way to see what works best.
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