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My ex got the wrong idea by me trying to be friendly!

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Question - (3 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2010)
A female Australia age 41-50, *magination writes:

I rescently made contact with my e after about four nonths. T he phonecall was harmless. However he has the wrong idea and is still totally hooked on me and won't refrain from messaging and emailing me. I have assured him the phonecall was innocent and was merely to let him know i care and am there as a friend. I just made the biggest mistake i thought i had given him enough time to lick his wounds. However this has put me in a real emotional predicament as i only intended on calling on a friendship level. All he can do is keep bringing us up in a romantically involved way. I care about him as a friend and don't want to see him hurt himself. I feel so terrible to try and break away as a friend as that is not what he wants. I don't know what to do nor how to help him. He won't move on.

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A female reader, Imagination Australia +, writes (4 April 2010):

Imagination is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thankypu Brunel.

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A male reader, Brunel Wallis and Futuna +, writes (3 April 2010):

If you care you will not contact him again. We all need time to get over things. I am sure for many of us it is a nice warm and caring thing to do to remain in contact. It realy does not work, leave it 3 months and see where you both are. Maybe you need to move on?

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