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writes:)OP's own title* I've never had anything like a one night stand before. I usually spend months dating a guy before sex comes into the equation, so I have no idea whether the way this guy was acting suggests it was a one night stand or something more. I work with this guy but we'd basically only ever talked about work so I didn't know him very well until the other night when I went out clubbing with him and a group from work. We just clicked and at the end of the night ended up at his place and slept together. We spent half the next day in bed together before going out to lunch which he paid for, then we lost track of time talking all afternoon. He wanted to cook me dinner but I said I had to go home. He kept saying things like he wants to know everything about me and staring deep into my eyes. He also invited me on a daytrip to the seaside with him and his friends next weekend. So that sounds like he might want something to me. But at the same time, I've heard things about him having a few one night stands so I'm not sure.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (3 April 2010):
 He's invited you down to the seaside, call him up and see if the invitation still stands.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 April 2010):
 At this juncture, we cannot be very certain if it is a one night stand or not. Only time will tell. If he disappears from your radar,it is confirmed.
Since you have heard about his reputation , it could be true but we cannot make assumptions as your case could be different.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Well his interest in you has gone on for more than one night hasn't it! He's definitely interested, I mean it's not even sex he's asking for. It may have just started with sex, but maybe it took that for him to realise that he liked you. Or maybe he'd liked you before and thought you weren't interested. Don't listen to rumours because most aren't true. Give him a go =]
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (3 April 2010):
All I have to say is don't get too excited about it or get your hopes up. After a good night many guys tend to talk about the future after these situations and then they never follow through. Just don't make a big deal about what happpened EVER and just see how it goes. If he follows through, then he was serious. If he doesn't follow through, then it sounded good at the moment but he changed his mind.
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