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writes:Hi i'm kobi. I have gotten a little bit overweight recently but still want a girlfriend. will girls still want me? I mean, i'm doing my best to lose weight at the moment but I'm not sure whether I'll still be attractive with some waist fat. can anyone help me? Thank you
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 October 2009):
Seriously?
Right, go outside into the real world, somewhere busy like a town centre or shopping centre.
Then look at all the guys who are there holding hands with a girl.
Do you honestly think they are all going to be super skinny?
This is a stupid question and you know it. If it was only super models that got boy / girlfriends then the human race would die out.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (11 October 2009):
 Kobi,
Only stupid and superficial girls look at stuff like that!
The first thing that most girls/women go for is PERSONALITY. Intelligence and humour is also important and as far as looks goes, most of us like kind eyes and a nice smile, clean well put together guys. personally i really don't like skinny guys..........not at all.You are perfect just the way you are and you will find the perfect girl for you trust me.......she's out there..........go get get her hun!
If you are worried about your weight for health reasons then look at:
-reducing the stress level in your life( stress raises blood sugar levels adding to diabetes and belly fat)
-reducing coffee, cigarettes and sugar(dido as above)
-drink more water( 6-8 glasses per day)
-improve digestion by: chewing your food well
eating when relaxed, never " on the go"
eat smaller meals more often
-clean your diet(no junk food at all
-EXCISE get at least 30 min of cardiovascular exercise(intense enough that you sweat)3-5/week. eg.-biking, running, your fav sport
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