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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:me and and mah boyfriend were at his crib....nd we thought we were ready so he put it in just a little nd it hurt so i told him no nd he took it out.....so am i still a virgin or not??
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reader, Lucy_Lucy_Lucy  +, writes (13 October 2009):
You better have been wearing a condom missy, or you will be paying for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Your not a virgin anymore
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female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 October 2009):
You had a penis in you, so in the most technical sense, you have lost your virginity.
However, he may not have broken your hymen, so you may still be a virgin in the physical sense.
It's not nice to be in the middle so make a choice about what YOU think and stick with that.
The best bet is not to have sex unless you have done lots of foreplay over several months to prepare your body.
Also, since you are under age, your body may just not be ready to have large things shoved inside it. That's probably why it hurt so much.
Wait till you are older and have been with a boy for a LONG time and have done all the other stuff like fingering and oral stuff a LOT first.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, :)31215 +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Well, I hope he had a condom on when he "put it in", and that you're on some form of birth control.You need to make sure that you're properly aroused before you try penetration; use more foreplay.Hope this helps, and please make sure you wear protection!
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reader, Beleren +, writes (10 October 2009):
_ NO! you were penetrated
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): If it went into you, even just a little, then you are not a virgin anymore. You weren't ready yet, clearly, but now it's done. I hope you used protection, otherwise you could get pregnant, if you didn't use any then you should wait a while and take a test.
Sexual activity is a VERY big deal, it has consequences that you may not realize (pregnancy, STD's, emotional damage, etc.) so please consider all this before you have sex again. We're all here to help, but you need to educate yourself too and learn what can happen. If you have questions, feel free to ask your parents or a trusted adult, or if you need to you can message any of us here.
PLEASE be careful next time, don't rush into anything again, you could find yourself getting hurt. :\
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