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writes:What is it about when a man has been showing interest in having a relationship with me for over a year and a half but won't ask me out for a date?He is going through a divorce after a long term marriage and having a very hard time of it. I am starting to feel like he is sportfishing and I am the fish. He reels me in then throws me back out in the water.I am very much attracted to him. I feel deep in my soul "He is the One". I have no interest in other men, just him.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (10 October 2009):
If he's going through a divorce then he may not be ready to start a new relationship. He could be confused and not know what he wants, meaning, there are times when he wants a relationship with you then he goes back to not knowing what he wants.
But, I agree, you can always ask him out. Then maybe you can figure him out a bit instead of wondering and playing a guessing game as to what he's thinking or feeling. If he agrees to go out then that's good! Then on your date you can get some insight on what his thoughts are. If he declines then you can ask him if he's a lost cause.
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reader, The Gentle Man  +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Crazy Idea.
Ask him out instead of waiting.
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