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Why has my fiance changed attitudes about sex?

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Question - (10 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 October 2009)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I don't understand my fiancé were sex is concerned.

When I met my fiancé 3 years ago she couldn't get enough sex we used to make love everyday and more than once a day, but now she has told me that she find sex dirty and it should be done in the bedroom in the dark.

I will be honest and say I have quirks regarding sex. My fiancé is cuddly and I think she has a great body, I enjoy it when my girlfriend dresses up for me in stockings, pantyhose (tights), high heels, PVC, satin and silk . I also like watersports and feet; when we first got together I told her this and one day I asked her to were high heels and stockings for me and go about what she was doing in the house naked and she did she even let me take pictures of her playing with herself using her high heels like a dildo then she let me masterbate over her feet.

Sex continued to be out of this world with her and recently she bought me shoes for her to wear for me and I bought her a couple of dildos and bondage gear, buy now she is telling me that she feels that sex is dirty and wrong and should only be done in our bedroom in the dark she also told me that she does what I ask because she thinks that I will go and find someone who will do what I want then one day we were talking online and we got talking about why she thinks like this about sex she claims it is how she was brought up, then I managed to get her to open up and tell me her fantasies she then phoned me and said that she was naked and playing with herself and then went into detail about what she wanted me to do to her and anal sex popes up and it was wow something else. I felt as though she was enjoying what I liked so I bought her anal toys but she then went back to being a prud but then I felt as though she relented to anal just to please me but from what I was seeing she really enjoyed what was getting done to her, she was acting like an an absolute slut and I loved it she even let me take more pictures of her but now she is back to being a prud and we haven't had sex for about 2 months.

I have tried to talk to her to find out what is wrong but she claims up or changes the subject.

I love my fiancé to death. I just don't understand how she has changed.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009):

She feels you see her only as a sex object bring back some the romance.

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