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We confessed we liked each other over a month ago. What should I do next?

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Question - (10 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *teve 88 writes:

me and her used to be friends but then we confessed we liked each other, that was over a month ago and now things have pretty much gone back to how they were before, we haven't talked about our feelings since. I know she trusts me enough to tell me a lot about her personal life, there seems to be a sort of awkward silence between us now. We haven't gone out on a official date nor have we done anything physical. what i want to know is whats the next step i should take with her. i'm really bad at relationships especially since shes a shy Muslim girl. I want to talk to her about it but i don't know how to start or how ease the conversation into this without seeming pushy?

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A male reader, Steve 88 United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2009):

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thanks for the answer, I'm thinking of just stopping her and then sincerly say to her that I love her. i'm just a little worried about how shes going to react and how i should reassure her that I'm willing to wait for her to be ready

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 October 2009):

If she's muslim, she could be worried about how her parents will react. Without seeming too pushy, ask her out for a coffee or something, just talk to her about how you feel. Ask her how she'd like to take it foward. You won't sound too pushy if you rexpect her and give her time to express herself.

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