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writes:I have been working at a new job for a few months now and since day one of my interview I've had a major crush on my boss. He's about 15-20 years older then me but I cant help but find him attractive. He has a lot of charisma and is passionate about anything he does in life which makes me like him more. I really do like my job but I cant seem to get him out of my mind. I think about him all the time. He is single from what I know or is casually dating someone. I just don't know if its worth the risk telling him about the crush or not. I just need some fresh opinions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): As long as you know who you are. Life is short and there is a lot to be said for reacting to those around you ina positive way. If youare serious about this guy try not to start a whirlwind relationship. You should get to know him as a person outside of work and ease everyone,s tensions about there being a lawsuit or work harrassment problem.. that truly means having good communication with each other. (My nickname is 007)
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reader, FrequentFlyer  +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Well it's really up to you on what you really want to do but do please look at a few aspects..
Are you single too? If you do something with him, is it going to be casual as well or something more? How's it going to affect your work aswell? Ask yourself "am I just having a little school crush on this man?" if you are, it is probably best left alone anyway.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 October 2009):
This is the same as a crush on a teacher or something. And it's best left alone. Work relationships can go very wrong. Also, he's your boss, which would make it worse i something did go wrong. Is he married? Personally, enjoy the crush for what it is and spend time finding another guy. I wouldn't take it any further.
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