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writes:I am in a new relationship with a man I very much love. Our relationship is going really well, and I think he's the man I may want to marry. Last night, though, I was at a friend's birthday party and got blackout drunk and apparently kissed a guy at the bar. I didn't even know I'd done it until someone told me! Furthermore, people saw it who know him. I told my boyfriend I was very drunk last night and don't remember anything already, but now that I know this I think I have to tell him about the kiss too. Do I tell him or wait and see if it's reported to him, and then deal with it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): I think it would be best if it came from you first. Tell him what you have said here. That you don't remember, but you apparently kissed some guy at the bar. He might be a bit upset about it, but I think it would come as an unpleasant shock if he was told by someone else. If you tell him, it might help him realise that it wasn't intentional, and the fact that you are being upfront will be a positive sign. So I recommend telling him. And at least that way, you can move on from it, rather than worrying about it and whether he finds out or not. And perhaps try and drink a bit less next time, just incase? Good luck. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): You should tell him. It will be better if it comes from you!
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