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writes:Well, I'm 28 single with a good job no children in good shape have my own place. Been single for like 5 years now. Dated on and off but can't really find anyone to connect with. Is it me or am I not trying hard enough and people always think I'm happily married or have a girlfriend I ask them why and they say because your always smiling so any advice would be nice. Should I just walk around with my head down LOL !!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): Ok, sounds like you need a bit of freindly networking. Do folks out there know that your availible and looking? While you may have to suffer through the odd fix-up, you can connect with some great women. I was introduced to my wife by a guy who I was 100% sure didn't have a CLUE about what I would find attractive in a woman. He was 100% right! So, let it be know that you're single and interested in meeting a quality woman, educated, no kids, no ex-husband, a good job... tall, thin and rich (joking on the last 3!)... worked for me! Celebrating 7 years of marriage- and it was the FIRST blind date since I was 15 years old!
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 No! Dont walk with your head down!
Stand up and be happy!
You are only 28, its not like you are old! I am 26 and in the same situation as you. I have a good job, great personality, im by no means an ugly duckling, but I have also been single since I was 20..... gets depressing sometimes! I just have not met anyone I connected with or who really attracted me...yet. All my friends are marrying off, having children and settling down, and I am the odd one out! But I know it will happen.
There will be someone, you just have to have a bit more faith. Maybe stop looking so hard. Sometimes you have to just get on with life before you can find someone you really connect with. You never know where you may meet that special person. It could just be a random meeting on the street.
Tiger x
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