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writes:i am a 21 year old gal and i masturbate a lot. i know its wrong and i wish to stop. however i keep succumbing to temptation. i have a loving boyfriend and we have a decent sex life. i wish to limit myself only to him. and stop all with watching or reading porn. please help me
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reader, gonzo1984  +, writes (16 November 2009):
Stop thinking that what you are doing is bad. See, you have been living a life where masturbating is ok. Having now a BF is just something more in you life, you will adapt to it. Just give it time. Reduce the time you spent in front of the PC. Then you will see that masturbating is just a hobby, like playing ball, cards or going shopping, things you can do without. Sex is nice, and knowing which spots to touch is what you have mastered. Ask him to help you out. Tell him what to do and where to tough... Communicate girl!!Enjoy the little times you spent playing with your body... in other things, feeling like having sex with yourself just assures that there are guys, your boyfriend that wants to have sex with you. Call him when you feel like bing touched...
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reader, duce00  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I think flicking your bean too often is the least of your worries.
If you really want something to be concerned about watch the news for a while...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): You're being very dramatic about this wholle issue. Have fun while it lasts
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes i am very much satisfied by my boyfriend. see m against him doing the same cause i find it cheap n right now 'm feeling really awful cause its such a hypocritical behaviour i am adopting. my only source to d porn is d net i have no material in d hard copy form. i know most of you think its normal but i am tired of the double standard life i have created for myself
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reader, greg290352  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Agreed - there is nothing wrong with masturbation. It is natural, necessary and fun! Even your boyfriend probably does it? :-) Just relax and enjoy your sessions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): There is nothing wrong w/masturbating, but when you have a partner, and you're satisfied, ussualy need for masturbating decreases significantly. Do you have orgazms w/your boyfriend? Ifnot, may be this is what causes you to do it so often
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reader, Legioness +, writes (15 November 2009):
 As quiet-echo has stated, there's really nothing wrong with masturbation, but if you really feel that strongly about it, then throw out your porn collection (or donate them to a friend lol) including all magazines, books, erotica etc and put a safetly lock on your computer so you're unable to view any such things when you're tempted. It's only a start, you still have to combat the urges, but you'll be halfway there. Hopefully another lovely aunt will be able to give you some sterling advice on tackling the physical side of the urges. But i'm a little short of ideas other than my two cents. All the best.
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