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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been going out for two months and have done everything but sex. Yesterday was our two month anniversary and we were just about to have sex, but her dad came home. So i got a handjob under the blankets instead. Which is better than nothing obviously. This morning i was texting her and she told me we cant do stuff any more. She said its not right cuz we go to church or something and i said well when do you want to? She said she doesnt know. Advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): just make sure you tell her how she feels and give her time to think about it make sure to talk to her.plus there us other things like finger blowjob handjob and touchy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Never let your girlfriend dictate terms in a relationship. We girls are very manipulative if you allow us to be. First decide if you can continue without the sexual contact. I know it would be hard to go without it after having it. if you think you cant continue without sexual contact, let her know that you wont hesitate to break up with her if she doesn't respect your wishes. Many guys don't know the power of love. Let me tell you, it is more powerful than sex. If she doesn't change her mind when you tell her you will leave, it means she doesn't really love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Being equal, "Digiman" does NOT mean only doing what the female wants......
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Respect her. You are so young anyway, its a good idea that you slow down. Dont push her to have sex, it will ruin everything and you will break her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): She's probably just gone flaky because her parents embarrassed her. Give it a few weeks; it'll blow over.
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reader, Digiman  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Aunty Bimbim is right on: you have to respect her wishes. She showed a lot of class and self-respect by choosing to "slow down", so be a gent (if you really care for her) and accept her decision...
This is your first step in learning to respect and value girls/women as equals: congratulations for being mature enough to ask for advice!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 You take no for an answer, she doesnt want to have sex, she also doesnt want to give you hand jobs under the blanket any more.Leave her alone, dont pressure her, she said NO and that should be the end of it!
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