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*ddy_nicolas
writes:why i cannot forget a person which i have loved?sometimes im thinking of her and i get sad.(its been 2years since we have broke up).what should i do?
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reader, eddy_nicolas +, writes (18 November 2009):
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well,it was extremely bad...
it was actually like in a movie..i have felt like my life was going on a knife edge.she betrayed me with my best friend.
i was completely devastated/finished.and when i was thinkin how hypocrite he was..actually both of them.that was in romania.because im half romanian and half italian.so,that's why i have decided to leave romania for good.
you know,i think that i forgot her..but sometimes before im sleeping ,i usually think/reflect about things...and she appears in my thoughts and i get sad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): I can tell you why you can't forget her, this is beside the things that are mentioned above maybe because you fell that she didn't treat you well.I mean you loved her but she couldn't treat you in the same way when she left you without any concederation to all that true love that you showed her.You fell that she doesn't deserve your love and you blame her for treating you in this way that is why you can't forget her.Also you can't forgive her that makes her memory alive in your heart and mind.I have the same feeling scince he left me last year though he knew that I love him so much and he saw that I was helpless.
Sometimes finding love somewhere else is a better remedy although you don't want but after looking at that person you realise that God loves you when He made her leave to allaw someone better to come in.Hard luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): It is inevitable for you not to be able to forget this person totally. Try getting another girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Do you have a good circle of friends?You should try and build a fun, busy life without her!Try a new hobby, do things you enjoy,meet new people, Have you seen her since? Why did the relationship end?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Because she made you feel special, she made you feel loved and you had some great times together. She accepted you the way you were and never judged you. She bought you presents for no reason. She picked you up when you were down and put you before everybody else. These are the reasons why I cannot forget the one I loved and we broke up on 31/10/2001. I still think of this person everyday.Don't be in a hurry to forget her. Remember the good times you had.I am grateful to god for the 2 years I spent with the love of my life and I will never forget this person.
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