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How can I save my LDR?

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Question - (15 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ubblegirl1818 writes:

Ok i love my boyfriend more then any thing. We have been dateing for seven months.

He broke up with me once in the beginning of our relationship. He asked me back out and said he made the biggest mistake of his life so i forgave him.

Now he told me he wants to break up but he doesnt want to because he still loves me.

I dont know what i would do if i lost him. What do you think i can do to keep him happy and not want to break up with me?

ps. were in a long distance relationship but most of the time we talk 24/7 and i realy dont want to lose him plz help.

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A female reader, bubblegirl1818 United States +, writes (17 November 2009):

bubblegirl1818 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

bubblegirl1818 agony auntthanks for your help things are all most pretty much back to normal i hope. He just told im glad we dint brake up so things are pretty good right now :) thanks

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A female reader, bubblegirl1818 United States +, writes (16 November 2009):

bubblegirl1818 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

bubblegirl1818 agony auntthank you guys for all your help and iv talked to him and were starting to get back on the right track. Its just hard still becuase i wish things could just go back to the way they were. But i know thats not going to happen over night so i just need to keep thinking positve becuase there must be some thing there cuz hes still with me. Its just kinda hard and confusing right now.

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A female reader, Another_Kapiti New Zealand +, writes (15 November 2009):

Another_Kapiti agony auntI'd have to agree with the previous poster. He does sound like he wants more freedom but doesn't want to hurt your feelings by doing that. I'm not sure how far away you are from him but perhaps you could visit him (taking the pressure of remaining celibate off a bit) or him visit you?

It sounds like your feelings are still running high but his feelings are on a decline, the best thing is to talk directly to your boyfriend and make the decision that is best for you. Good luck!

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