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writes:Well, i want to ask this lad out who is also one of my best mates, i asked on here before wether i should or not and somebody advised me to, so i thought meh may aswell (lol)!anyway...the thing is, i dont really know how to do it...im really scared of just walking up to him and asking, and none of my mates know apart from one that int even in m school so i cant get one of them to do it, i just dnno what to do :(i was thinking of just like ringing him up and being like 'what you up to im proper bored' and have a lil chat about random crap then just like...erm...ask him xDor should i do something different?? im 13 and ive never been out with anyone before and neither had he i dont think. so, i just need you guys' opinions please!thankyou!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, cutie_emz +, writes (6 May 2010):
Hi, I'm 13 and never kissed,danced, or been out with any guy but my friend has never been out with a guy either so she text this guy she liked asking if he wanted to go to the cinema (they haven't been yet). So that's wot I think u should do, but don't watch anything that is boring but something that maybe u will get tears in ur eyes so he can cuddle and then he should get the point that u want to go out with him then ta da ur boyfriend and girlfriend x hope it goes well x
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 This sort of situation is daunting for anyone, so don't think you're alone in feeling scared of rejection! It doesn't matter what age you are, just walking up to a guy you fancy and asking straight out is quite hard for most of us..
You could always try inviting a small group to meet up and go for lunch somewhere, takes the pressure off of one on one, and you can see if he takes any special interest in you! What about email? Is he on facebook? We're more inclined to be more honest out our feelings if they're typed rather than spoken, so you could contact him online perhaps?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): why dont you try asking him to go to the cinema and sorta make it a date. or what i did when i asked someone out for the first time was i wrote it down on a piece of paper and passed it to him. Its a discreet way of asking. good luck hunny xx
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