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writes:I'm not to sure if this means anything or what but basically me and some of my mates thought this guy liked me cuz he used to stare at me loads, he seemed really weird aorund me as if he felt something and everyone said it was obvious he did. However he would never admit it. He is kinda shy, hes very friendly and will help anyone out.He just tries to do whats best. And also because he told some people in our group something and i heard my name come from him and after that they started teasing us, however once this girl that has liked him for ages found out she spread a load of crap about me and tried to turn people against me. Even then he still showed he liked me but didnt really speak to me much. Thing is he found out i liked him and then denyed it to my mate who told him saying he didnt have feelings for me....however he still acted like he did. But ive recently found out that two of his mates from another clas asked him if anyone liked him... and he told them i did, and described me to them because they werent sure who i was. Now im confused1) since when do people say is there anyone that likes you? it tends to be do u like anyone..2) why did he say me, he knows full well that other girl likes him(he dont like her) and some others do but he never said them. Just me!See im unsure why because hes never really told anyone that i like him, he hasnt done it to be nasty im jsut wondering why he would say me...when theres nothing there(or supposively nothing there - feelings wise from him) This is what i dont get.Also he says were good friends however he doesnt speak to anyone much online anyway but if we do i have to start the convo and talk really....although jsut recently he has been talking more but i dont understand why he would tell them that...i mean what was the point, why just me?Dont worry im not bothered about it as in thinking it was nasty im jsut confused as to if there was a reason deep down that he did
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I'm afraid I'd have to say that the more you listen to gossip and he said/she said, the more confused you're going to be. No one really knows how this boy feels about you except him, he might deny liking you because he knows his friends will rib him if he admits his feelings! You'd have to go straight to the horse's mouth to get a straight answer, and I don't know if you're ready to do this? Basically, if you're prepared to wait until he's ready (as we know that boys mature a lot more slowly than girls do) I'd say wait, if not then the more pressure this boy feels, the more he'll act out (and probably against you, even if he likes you!) and you won't even have friendship to fall back on...
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