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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15 we have bin going out for 2 years and she asked me to have sex about 2 weeks ago and shes grabbing my croch and whispering in my ear shes wet and ready for me what sould i do
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Let's see. Are you prepared to support a child? Do you know how to have safe sex? do you have the required supplies? Are you committed to her? Can you trust her with your feelings? Can you trust her with your deepest secrets? Can she trust you? The fact that you haven't given in already says that you are unsure yourself.
Remember it is your virginity as well. It is your body, you decide. There is only one first time.
So you ask "what should I do?" You should stay out of exclusive relationships until you are around 18 years old. You should not date until you are around 16 years old. If you had done those you wouldn't be faced with this decision before you have the earning potential and the emotional maturity to support a pregnancy.
She just wants to play. The consequences of this game are too serious for it to be played casually. Quite frankly as a 16 year old boy, you must have had a pretty good reason not to take her up on the invitation. Most young men your age would be sorely tempted. I think you have already decided.
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 The very fact that you're asking if you think you're ready, screams that you're not! Just because you're the guy doesn't mean you should give in to your girlfriends wishes. Besides which (16 is the legal age of consent in America isn't it?) you would be committing statutory rape regardless of consent! Wait until you are ready, and at least until she's 16, if she cares about your wellbeing, she'll wait, if she doesn't want to wait, she obviously cares little that you could go to jail (or at the least juvie!)
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