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No strings attached??

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Question - (15 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How does a guy feel when a girl tells them that she wants no commitment no strings attached, nothing just someone she can have fun with?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2009):

It depends on the guys. If he really wants more, then he will take what you're offering and probably end up hurt. But if all he wants is sex, he'll just take what he wants. But be sure it's what you want. The last thing need is to start falling for him, then get hurt when he says he isn't interested (which happens frequently).

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A female reader, Tine United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2009):

Tine agony aunti think it really depends on the guy and what sort of feelings he has for you. People have the opinion that guys all look for no strings fun but in my experience there are some guys out there looking for a loving relationship. If this guy that you want to tell this has strong feelings for you and wants a relationship he may not be into no strings fun. However you will never know until you say to them i suppose.

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A female reader, Deema United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2009):

Deema agony auntIt's an odd question. Are you asking because that happened to you and you don't know how to feel, or are you asking because thats what you want to do? In which case why are you so worried about putting that idea to someone if you think its right thing to do? Are you scared of losing him if you tell him you want an open relationship - cus if you are then you don't really want an open relationship, you want commitment - but on your terms. True- or have I got the complete wrong end of the stick here? Please clarify.

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A female reader, Legioness United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2009):

Legioness agony auntIt depends on the guy, a lot of factors come into play.. Whether he's the type who likes commitment or prefers the freedom, how much he likes you and generally how he feels about you. It's hard to say in general because every person varies.

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