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writes:Is is plainly just chemistry? I have been single for very long and have yet be able to open my heart to anyone now. There are a few potentials one in my life now but I just cannot open my heart. Is love just based on chemistry or is it that I am unwilling to give up my past and open my heart to trust again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnyways I can work on that? As my circle of friends is very small and there are really very very few guys in my social group. Don't I will be given a chance to love too
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reader, Kat1235  +, writes (15 November 2009):
Hi there.
I have had a very similar problem. A lot of things that happened while growning up really affected my ability to trust people, not just guys but friends too. It was ruining my life, I just knew I had to get over this.
I recently fell for one of my friends, he's a pretty amazing guy. And I knew he felt the same. And for the first time I let my guard down and started trusting him. And it was the best thing I've ever done. We've been together for about 3 months now, and I'm so happy. I've not felt like this in a long time.
Guess what I'm trying to say is that trust comes with time. But don't be afraid to let your guard down. It'll probably be the best thing you've ever done.
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