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*andra_dee
writes: My husband cheated on me recently and the affair last 3 months. he called it quits when we decided to work thimgs out. I found out that she left town around the same time i found out that im pregnant (sept.) could she also be pregnant with my husbands child and that be the reason she split town? or am i making something out of nothing? please help!
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reader, sandra_dee +, writes (15 November 2009):
sandra_dee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know the trust cannot be restored, especially because of an email she sent him the last i hope begging him toplease not to end it. after that i found out from a friend of my husbands that she moved, deleted her social profiles, and how heartbroken she was. apparantly she cut all familiar ties and moved 2 hrs from where we live (houston).
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (15 November 2009):
I don't think she would leave town if she was pregnant with your husband's kid. I think she would stay around and have that fact linger over his head, maybe get him to break things off with you, and then get some child support with some sympathy. In fact I wouldn't even be worrying about what this woman is doing. I'd be more worried about the fact that your husband had an affair for three months.
Are you sure you're going to raise a child with this man? Are you even sure that you are going to gain back the trust between you two? There isn't really anything you can do about this woman and her personal life, or even if she's pregnant. That's pretty much the least of your worries, not to mention it's impossible to find out either way. So don't worry about things you can't do anything about and turn your attention to things that you can do something about. Like your cheating husband? Good luck!
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reader, sandra_dee +, writes (15 November 2009):
sandra_dee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe affair lasted between march and may of this year. he's also started distancing himself.
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