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writes:my teacher whom i had a great respect on is now trying to get close to me he made me sit after classes alone with him and told me that he enjoyed a girl and he told me to stay after classes and talk freely.he doesn't do this to other girls and he is almost 55 and i am in my teens i already have a boyfriend and now this talk is disturbing the relationship with my boyfriend what do you think the teacher expects? what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Do not spend time alone with this man! I realise I'm stating the obvious but for a 55 year old man to request spending time with a young girl is morally wrong and out of bounds! I think the best thing to do would be to speak to your parents, then a head teacher (or Principal) and request changing classes/teachers.
If he asks you to stay after class again, ask a friend to stay with you, or refuse (you are well within your rights to refuse) say that you're needed at home and leave immediately.
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reader, bubblegirl1818  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I think you should avoid talking to him and make sure he knows you dont want any thing to do with him. If he keeps it up even though he nows you dont want any thing to do with him try telling a adult your close to or some one at the school you trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Your teacher is being utterly stupid. I urge you to firmly say 'No' and stay out of his way as much as possible. (I write as a teacher in his 50's.)
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