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writes:I was wondering do men in 25 and above are easily admit or telling the girls they like or love that they love them even if their feeling toward the girl isn't that strong? and I want to know why most of men looking for beauty and caring about it more than moral in the girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want all men to get the idea beauty is not everything in girls.we aren't just bodies.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 June 2009):
 Once, I saw this TV comic show in which the actress, a blonde, said that "men think women are dumb, but no woman marries a man because he has pretty legs". So, you're kind of right. Only not about everyone.
I have the feeling that you asked this question for a particular reason. Maybe you want to share that reason, too? I sense your real doubts were not cleared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think the most common reason for guys to be hurt is the way they choose their girls especially if they don't consider the good and bad side
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut they shouldn't always consider the beauty because in my view this one of the reasons for them to get injury.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (6 June 2009):
I think I can qualify as an older man.
I see you put your country as France. Maybe you're not a native speaker of English; neither am I. I say this because I want you to notice something. You write your post as whether men "admit" more easily that they love a girl, even if the feelings are not strong. "Admit" would mean that the man in question actually loves the girl, which is contradicted later when you write that the feelings are not strong.
I suppose that your question is whether men above 25 are quicker to say they love someone, even if it's not true. I am not sure. Age is not as important as maturity. As they age, many people, men or women, become way more careful with what they say; and that is not necessarily so because they want to tell the truth, but because they are considered responsible for what they say. Some people are very able at misleading, rather than plain and open lying.
Conversely, if someone above a certain maturity says "I love you", it won't be said in the heat of a moment, only because someone noticed your great shape.
Beauty is important for men, but I am not sure it is more important than morals. At least, not when you have reached the point in life when the quality of the relationship matters more than the physical appearance. I can but remember Robinson Crusoe. One of the Spanish men who were marooned in an island chose the eldest native as wife. Everyone else laughed, but over time she proved to be the best choice.
Of course, that does not mean you would reject a beauty just because her morals are very high :-).
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think guys look at the beauty,they ignor how good or bad the girl is and this one of the reason for men to get injury.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 June 2009):
 Each man is different so you can't put them into a group like this. It totally depends on personality and their feelings.
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